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For some, the whole point of bondage , spanking and other BDSM activities is to lead up to an inevitable sex scene which is more enjoyable because of all of the adrenaline which has been built up through punishments and pain. When you remove sex from the equation, the slave has to work on other parts of their training in order to be obedient. Conversely, a Master or Mistress who controls a slave without the added help of sex will find that they have to be more dominating in their tone and in their behavior.

This way, they can control the slave while also training them to behave in the way they need to behave. But over time, as you grow to care about each other or to simply wanting to deepen the intimacy, sex might become a part of the relationship. In those situations, the sex might become a way to motivate the slave in order to behave well.

That is, if they behave. By dangling this sort of carrot for a while, the slave will see that they need to continue to be a good slave in order to get what they want in the relationship and the Dominant can get what they want as well. The slave should be willing to do what is asked of them because it pleases their owner, not because they are getting a reward.

For most kinksters, there are urges and internal desires that run deeper than sexual drives, which are centered solely around BDSM. For a Dominant, this can be the desire to control another and see them vulnerable before them. For a Sadist, it is the desire to inflict pain on another and see them writhe in blissful painful delight.

For the submissive, it can be letting go of all their worries, quieting their mind and just being focused on the next command. For the masochist, it is the endorphin release that comes from experiencing the pain and allowing everything to just flow out of their body. For all it can be a cathartic release and a time to bask in their BDSM desires. If you liked this article, please take a minute to e-mail your friends and let them know about it.

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