Bdsm at home

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We've discussed the awesomeness of pervertables — common household items turned sex toys — but erotic novelist Joey W. Hill is here to tell us more about the joys of pervertables. In Fifty Shades of Grey and my own Knights of the Board Room series , the heroes are rich, handsome, sexual Dominants with a seemingly endless supply of money.

They happily invest their fortunes in expensive contraptions, hidden pleasure rooms, and state-of-the-art sex toys to pleasure their subs. But as a practicing sub in my personal life, I can assure you exploring BDSM and other sexual fantasies doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg or any other interesting body part.

In fact, many of us "in the lifestyle" fondly refer to our local hardware stores as Dom Depot. The term "pervertable" refers to a common household item that can be "hidden in plain sight" and repurposed for sex play with your partner. Hopefully the examples below will help you look at each area of your home with a fresh set of eyes:. Many consider the spatula the most glorious BDSM paddle in the world. Somehow both flexible and rigid, it delivers a powerful slap and leaves delicious soap-sized marks on your lover's backside.

While you're checking out the utensils, don't forget to grab your humble wooden spoon. Almost everyone has clamps for chip bags — they can also be used on nipples or scrotums. Just test them on your own flesh first to determine their strength.

Even the most demanding decorators would approve of a linen trunk at the end of the bed. Choose one that locks to hide X-rated toys that don't blend well — but you can also use the trunk itself as a pervertable. Look for one with ring handles to tie your lover down, turn it into a spanking bench, or use it as an impromptu wedge to explore different angles. Screw a heavy grade hook into a ceiling support beam. Long-distance relationships of all kinds are more and more prevalent thanks to technology.

Keeping in touch is easier than ever before… but sometimes it's the lack of touch that makes…. If your sofa has reclining options, it's even more versatile. Use a cheap vinyl tablecloth to cover the dining room table. Melt paraffin candles or wax tucked neatly away in a china cupboard into a burner and brush the wax onto your lover's skin.

Safety Note: Proceed carefully and slowly with any type of candle wax. It's possible to do too much, too fast and burn the skin in an unpleasant way. My partner has decided that they're okay with me going to someone to help me…. Around the house: In my humble opinion, the Bowflex is one of the best pieces of sex furniture ever created. The frame is outfitted with carabineer clips at ankle, mid body and above-the-head levels, while the extended bench is perfect for all sorts of sexual positions.

If you're like me, you have a box of sports accessories collecting dust somewhere. Discarded rubber balls become ball gags, the wiffle bat produces a nice smack on a bare ass, and jump rope is a great tool for loosely tying your partner to a bed, a table, a chair, a linen trunk… You get the idea. You may find hairbrushes, lotions, oils, and the detachable showerhead in your bathroom.

Need I say more? Discarded or unused pet collars, leashes, and collapsible cages all have intriguing potential, and a muzzle can be fitted around a certain human appendage. Carrie is a Los Angeles-based writer who's written about her experiences with kink and disability. Joey knows of what she speaks. Check out her sexy books! Many people tell me they are uncomfortable or overwhelmed when they consider buying sex toys from a store or online site, while others say they don't have the budget set aside to invest in the toys they read about in my books.

None of these reasons should stop you from exploring potential fantasies in a safe, healthy, and consensual way. Consider this article the jumpstart to your own sexy scavenger hunt! Once you locate the pervertables mentioned above, I guarantee you'll find more on your own. Good luck and have fun. I wanted to be swept off my feet by our romantic encounters. Malik, however, is a sub.

He wanted…. Joey W. Hill is the author of more than thirty erotic romance novels and the recipient of the RT Book Reviews Career Achievement award. She is a practicing submissive in her personal life and has been involved in the BDSM community for more than twenty years. It's not for everyone, but… electric toothbrushes. I admit, I've had…ideas of how to use my electric toothbrush.

May have to get a kiddie one so I can…test it. Dootsie's Sex Advice Corner Time! A lot of people use the back of the bristled head or the end you're supposed to hold for stimulation. I use the bristle side of the head I know, I know, it sounds scary! Things do get sore if you use it a lot. I'd advise against using the end you're supposed to hold for any sort of insertion. I guess they're supposed to be waterproof because tooth brushing is a wet event, but the ones I've had don't seem to have very tight battery compartments. They're awesome.

I've spent a lot of money on toys, but electric toothbrushes will be my forever love. Aaaand end overshare. You know those rubber finger covers made to turn s easier? One of those over the toothbrush head works wonders. My first vibrator before I was old enough to buy one meant for that purpose was an electric toothbrush! Thank you so much for this! Great post! An above poster mentioned electric toothbrushes, but I can personally vouch for electric razor handles. They come in all different shapes and sizes. The bag clips and the spatula are ones we were already using, so it's good to know others do too!

I bought one for my boyfriend last xmas from Target that is red with the word "Naughty" on it. Sadly, you can only put a heavy duty hook or ring in a ceiling support beam if your ceiling HAS support beams. We were so mad when we found out my Viking's bedroom doesn't have ceiling beams. SO MAD. Hi, if you are lacking support beams, you might consider to do as follows: You might install a wood frames of 10x10cm in all corners of your bedroom.

A profile of 10x10cm is pretty strong. Below the roof same same story. Add support beams across the room as needed. The idea is to mount horizontal support beams as needed and to add vertical beams to bring the load down to the ground, like in a real timber-framework building.

Attach fixings in the beams as needed. Thats possible in horizontal and vertikal beams. The fixings might be wooden screws with rings or steel inserts with a thread so there are no rings looking out of a wall, just a hole, if not in use. That should be ok for fixing, probably not for suspension, i am not a structural engineer, so take care! If no one ever sees your bedroom, you are done. If you want to cover it, just use cardboard to cover the framework with a regular white wallpaper. Nearly no one will notice, the walls to your bedroom are thicker then other walls. Easy on all walls, except the door.

There you might need a thicker frame for the door. Wooden door would work or this "wonderfull tapestry from your last holiday" would work also. If your living room and bedroom are on the same side of your house, both rooms have to have nearly the same depth. If it was 6m depth and now 6 and 5. If there are now 6m and 4m 2m secret room it does not match, even without using a ruler. We got several wedding presents with nice satin ribbons as part of the wrapping. They immediately went into the "Bag o' Fun" where we keep our actual, purchased cuffs.

Also, don't discount your local fabric store. One of the first set of ropes we got were cheap, "buy it by the yard" curtain tiebacks. If you're buying ten yards of it, you may get an odd look from the nice fabric-store lady, but hey, it's soft and functional! And avoid nylon rope! It can cause serious rope burn and it can slip if you are doing partial suspensions.

Great ideas being presented here! Note to self — must look for that Naughty Spatula at Target, now that we're headed into the Christmas season…. Chuckle — I've heard about the wondrous properties of the electric toothbrush, though Loli-Lolly, I admit I've had a serious desire to write to the razor people and suggest they strengthen the motor on that vibrator handle option considerably laughter. Eamane, I think the effectiveness of nylon rope depends on the knots and how it's employed in BDSM practice.

Thickness, braided, etc all can make a difference as well. Glad you raised that point! In my book, that makes up for the lack of support beam, but having it all would be nice laughter. Megan, I want one of those jump ropes.

There is no way those handles were not deed without sex play in mind. Great pics! Have been enjoying the comments — thank you for posting them, and glad you took the time to read the article! Great article — I really want to get a linen trunk for the end of my bed for these exact purposes! It can be a real choking hazard. As a former sex-shop employee, I would also like to point out that, while these are good at home BDSM things, that before trying anything new, it is important to do your research. Look up the proper way to tie someone up so as not to injure them and the same goes with any non-vanilla sex act.

Most reputable sex shops are going to have books and DVDs explaining how to do these things especially since 50 shades came out but websites are also available for how-to guides. Cyndie, excellent point, and I'm very glad you pointed that out. My apologies — in the article, I was imagining balls larger than a person could swallow, probably because I have dogs, and so all the balls in our house have to be over that size for them as well laughter.

Ellie makes a great point as well. The point of an article like this is to be fun and pithy, but safe, sane and consensual means making sure that everything you do stays fun and not dangerous. Great overview of BDSM play, including introduction to basic safety tips, etc.

But as Ellie pointed out, you can also visit forum sites like Fetlife. And above and beyond everything else since we know the Internet can be filled with smart and not-so-smart info , always use common sense. Well done! Secondly, public service announcement to not suspend or partial suspend until you know what you are doing. Please, please, Go to classes, conferences if you're really kinky! Finally, a reminder that you can do these things even if you have housemates, small children, or the like. Be creative! Makeup brushes especially the big fluffy kabuki kind make great gentle tickling sensations, either on their own or on just-spanked skin.

Small ratchet straps: these make fantastic tie downs…. Shoulder strap from a duffle bag: makes a great behind the neck leg spreader…the neck pad is awesome. Of course, like the chip clips, check them out before using. There was a site, I don't know if it is still going, the Frugal Domme.

She had a ton of great ideas. The clothespins are a great idea and if they are too painfull you can take them apart and reverse them so the open end is now the pinchy end and it takes some pressure off!

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